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19/1/2015

Good Morning and how are you today???

Ok so yesterday I found out that a friend of mine is polyamorous not ever hearing of this I started asking questions and well it kinda spun me out.
You see she is married, has a boyfriend and she has a finance now other than the fact that it would get very complicated emotionally but I don't get how the whole thing works.  There must be a certain amount of jealousy involved, being that you are having sex with other people that you are not married to does that constitute cheating?  So I decided to a bit of digging and there is a heap of info out there on it.  Which leads me to wonder how many people in Australia consider themselves to be polyamorous, and how do they navigate the intricate details of having their other partners home and having their wife/husband go out.
I am of the theory that what people do behind their front door is their business and who am I to judge what people do with their lives, but I can't help wonder is there rules that go with it, is it the same as swinging?  If you have a relationship with a person of the same sex does that mean you are gay?
I felt so strange asking all of the questions but I had to know and I still have more questions, but how far do I go with it?  When do the questions go from being curious to plain creepy?
I get that not all people can be in a monogamous relationship but how is it any different to polygamy?

Sorry to get heavy but these are the things that have been buzzing around in my head since I found out yesterday and well I do kinda want to know.  So if anybody out there is in a polyamorous relationship and doesn't mind sharing their story please let me know.

Two weeks and the kids go back to school YAY, now I love my kids dearly but at this point they would test the patience of a saint, and that is due to them having being off for 8 weeks, so next week it will be going and getting uniforms, school bags and so forth.  I know the kids are looking forward to going to school they have had enough of being with each other and being that it has been so hot, they are stuck inside watching TV.

So life is pretty much back to normal after the move. I am quite surprised how quickly we have settled in and finding our way around.
Yesterday I had to go to Mandurah, because Carrissa was going to see a play - it was part of her Christmas present from her God-Mother.  She went and saw Alice in Wonderland, she said that it was really funny and she enjoyed it.  The drive well, the first thought was "Do I have to drive South'' then I did have a chuckle to myself we leave Mandurah and then the next week I am back there. Trying to get a park down there was hard, being that when it is hot people flock to the Foreshore and there were also markets on.  They drive so slow now I know I have only been in the "big smoke" for a week and you would think that you wouldn't notice a change that quick but you do.  Even the surroundings, I was able to see  Mandurah with fresh eyes and I noticed how tired it looked, normally when things change it is to make them look better but it seems that there is no change.

Talk to you soon
Kylie XXXX